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And we're making things even harder by shunning her journey into motherhood."Mothers are judged if they work, or if they give up work."She said income was a major concern, and child support could be problematic if an agreement between parents was not reached.She said co-parenting was often difficult when the parents did not really know one another."Co-parenting is about being on the same page, raising the child with similar values and standards," she said."With people that don't really know each other, this in itself can cause considerable conflict."Communication has not been developed …and they have little understanding of each other."She said that combined with work requirements, residential choices and future partners made it a complex issue.Tessa is now a proud single mum to 15-month-old daughter Memphis, and juggles the role with running her hospitality business."It's full on, it's difficult," she said."But I run a successful business with confidence, I believe in myself, I make better choices and I really feel a sense of purpose that I didn't have before [Memphis]." Memphis' dad does not pay child support and is not a part of her life, but Tessa says the door is open."Right from the start I told him I don't expect anything from him, including financially," she said."He is a good, kind person and when, and if, he's ready [to be in her life], then he'll always be welcome."I just asked him, if you do want a relationship, just commit to it."Don't come in and out and break her heart."Counselling psychotherapist and family dispute mediator Karen Phillip from the NSW Central Coast works with up to 12 sets of parents-to-be each year who have conceived during a one-night stand or "brief hook-up"."Often the father may not want the baby, yet the mother may decide to proceed, creating increased conflict between the parents-to-be," she said."I have also counselled parents where the mother does not wish to proceed with the birth, yet the father does.Ms Phillip has also seen cases where the man is already in a relationship yet has engaged in sex outside of that and "wishes to delete the child and move on so his partner does not find out".
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